Resources

A. ADVANCE HEALTH CARE/DEATH CARE PLANNING

Accompanying the Dying: a Practical Guide and Awareness Training, by Deanna Cochran, R.N., hospice and palliative care nurse and end-of-life educator in Austin, TX. A range of services from 15-minute phone or Skype brainstorming to a 3-month professional Practical Guide and Awareness Training. See also www.aGentleGuide.com.

Choicesfree downloadable booklet from Minnesota Department of Health with legal and practical information on the final disposition of a body.

Consider the Conversationa 60-minute documentary on the American struggle with communication and preparation at life’s end. Multiple interviews with patients, family members, doctors, nurses, clergy, social workers and national experts like Ira Byock and Susan Dolan.

The Conversation Project, founded by journalist Ellen Goodman, provides a starter kit for starting conversations with loved ones about final wishes.

Five Wishes advance health care directive is legal in 41 states. Free download at Aging with Dignity.

Funeral Consumer’s Alliance of Minnesota, founded in 1942, affiliated with the national Funeral Consumers Alliance. Offers education and advocacy concerning after-death care and encourages pre-planning to help assure meaningful and affordable choices. Offers a free 2-page After Death Arrangements form.

Get Your Shit Together: A great site for organizing the things your loved ones will need after your death.

GoWish – A deck of 36 cards to help clarify end-of-life values. In English and Spanish. Can be played online or with actual cards.

Green Burial Council Planning Guide: a worksheet for planning and facilitating a green funeral, a supplement to other end of life planning.

Honoring Choices Minnesota, from the Twin Cities Medical Society and Twin Cities Public Television, encourages families to have discussions regarding end-of-life care choices. Excellent documentary films at www.honoringchoices.org/documentaries/

Honoring Choices Minnesota Health Care Directive is an advance health care directive specifying your wishes and naming an agent to speak for you if you cannot speak for yourself. The form can specify whether this agent has the power to make decisions about the care of your body after death. A newly available short form is a quick document to answer basic medical and agent questions. Free download of either version at http://www.metrodoctors.com/dev/index.php/healthcare-directives

Physician-Ordered Life-Sustaining Treatment Paradigm (POLST): POLST documents are a new way of approaching end-of-life medical decisions. They are aimed at people who have received a terminal diagnosis and are filled out in conversation between patient, health care agent, and health care provider, so that all parties understand how the patient’s life values will influence their desires for EOL care.

The Letter Project: A project of Stanford University School of Medicine, The Letter Project’s goal is to help adults at all stages of life write a letter to their health care providers (MTN note: and loved ones, too!) outlining their life values and EOL desires.

My Final Wishes (pre-planning booklet) published by the  Threshold Care Circle  in Viroqua, WI, is a fill-in-the-blank workbook to record preferences for end of life and afterward. It includes wishes for funeral, burial and memorial services; information for your death certificate and obituary; and the location of papers needed to handle your estate as well as phone numbers of important people to call.

OktoDie.com, tied to the book by Monica Williams-Murphy, MD. and Kristian Murphy, It’s Okay to Die, has POLST forms and other tools, including the valuable new Personal Self-Assessment Scale (PSAS), allowing one to define ahead of time when to accept or forego specific medical interventions at each stage of decline of health.

B. FAMILY-DIRECTED VIGILS/HOME FUNERALS

1. Articles: (Family-Directed Vigils/Home Funerals)

Alexander, Max, “The Surprising Satisfactions of a Home Funeral,” Smithsonian, March 2009.

“DIY Death: Natural, At-Home Funerals And Their Boomer Appeal.” November 22, 2013. http://commonhealth.wbur.org/2013/11/diy-death-natural-home-funerals

Lilipoh:  The Spirit in Life, Death & Dying:  Home Funerals, Green Burials, Conscious Dying, Issue 62 Vol. 16, Winter 2011.

Natural Transitions Magazine: articles, stories, and photos on conscious, holistic, and eco-friendly approaches to end of life, including family-directed after-death care.

Who Owns the Dead? Owns the Dead?” featuring Elizabeth Knox, founder of Crossings: Caring for Our Own. New Republic, June 24, 2015. https://newrepublic.com/article/122130/who-owns-dead

Zezima, Katie, “Home Burials Offer an Intimate Alternative,” New York Times, July 20, 2009.

2. Books: (Family-Directed Vigils/Home Funerals)

Alison’s Gift: The Song of a Thousand Hearts Opening by Pat Hogan (NOSILA Publishing, 1999). The true story of seven-year-old Alison, rendered brain dead in a car accident. Her mother, Beth Knox, cared for her body during a home vigil and went on to found Crossings: Caring for Our Own at Death. Book available at crossings.net.

Caring for the Dead: Your Final Acts of Love: A Complete Guide for Those Making Funeral Arrangements With or Without a Funeral Director. Lisa Carlson. Upper Access Publishers, 1998.  The original comprehensive guide for funeral issues.

Final Rights: Reclaiming the American Way of Death, Joshua Slocum and Lisa Carlson, Upper Access Press, 2011 www.funerals.org/ The new comprehensive guide for funeral issues with state-by-state requirements.

Handbook for Creating a Home Funeral, JerriLyons & JanelleVan Melvin, 1998. finalpassages.org

Laughing in a Waterfall: A Mother’s Memoir. Marianne Dietzel,  Laughing Bridge Publishing, 2010  mariannedietzel.com

Living Consciously, Dying Gracefully: A Journey with Cancer and Beyond. Nancy Manahan & Becky Bohan, Beaver’s Pond Press, 2007  nanbec.com

Living Into Dying: A Journal of Spiritual and Practical Deathcare for Family and Community. Nancy Jewell Poer,  White Feather Publishing, 2002  nancyjewelpoer.com

Resource Guide: A Manual for Home Funeral Care. Elizabeth Knox Free download at crossings.net

Undertaken With Love: A Home Funeral Guide for Congregations and Communities Free download at http://undertakenwithlove.org/?page_id=104

3. Films: (Family-Directed Vigils/Home Funerals)

Art of Natural Death Care, a 28-minute showing families caring for loved ones after death. https://vimeo.com/220346382

A Family Undertaking, a full-length PBS documentary on the growing home funeral movement follows several American families as they forgo a typical mortuary funeral to care for their loved ones at home.  Film clip at PBS.org. On Netflix.

The Most Excellent Dying of Theodore Jack Heckelman, a full-length documentary about the conscious dying and home funeral of the filmmaker’s brother, an environmentalist.  See a clip of the film at IMDb.

Passing Through Our Hands: A Home Funeral Guide, home funeral educator Donna Belk’s video guide for after-death care of a body.

4. Internet: (Family-Directed Vigils/Home Funerals)

CBS news feature on home vigils and green burials.

“End-of-life Choices: Through History,” Twin Cities Public Television’s 26-minute documentary featuring Minnesota Threshold Network members.”

Home Funeral Directory, natural after-death care and green funeral options

Home funerals and green burials, a 9-minute YouTube excerpt of a 2012 presentation by Minnesota Threshold Network members Heather Halen and Julie Tinberg.

Minnesota Public Radio 4-minute video and story on a 3-day home vigil 

How-To Manuals: Step by step home funeral guides and manuals from the National Home Funeral Alliance

Preparing to Die: website on funeral planning, including green funerals.

5. Organizations: (Family-Directed Vigils/Home Funerals)

Beholding the Threshold: education and support for conscious dying, home vigils, and family-directed funerals. Stories, photos of home funerals, and practical information on how to care for those who have died.

Crossings: Caring for Our Own at Death: education and inspiration to families for better experiences in after-death care, with or without a funeral director, and for exercising choices that will bring about greater healing. Offers a 37-page step-by-step resource guide for a home funeral as a $25 booklet or as a free PDF download.

Funeral Consumers Alliance: national watchdog and educational organization for home funerals and ethical practices in the funeral industry.

Funeral Consumers Alliance of Minnesota: an independent, non-sectarian, tax-exempt source of information about after-death arrangements that advocates for consumer protection through education, legislation, and direct action. FCA MN maintains a tremendously helpful general price survey for Twin Cities area funeral service providers.

Funeral Ethics Organization: national organization working against exploitation of consumers making funeral purchases.

Minnesota Coalition for Death Education and Support: promotes and provides education, opportunities for networking, and support to professionals and volunteers involved in the care of persons confronting death and bereavement.

Minnesota Funeral Planning: with links to vendors around the state.

The Morning Star Singers: a group of volunteer singers who offer songs of healing and comfort to those struggling with living or dying. The group sings for free at hospices, hospitals, nursing homes, and private homes within the Twin Cities.

National Home Funeral Alliance: educating families about end-of-life choices, including natural death care and home funerals.

The Order of the Good Death: Founded in 2011 by Caitlin Doughty, a Los Angeles mortician. Funeral professionals, academics, and artists advocating accepting that “death itself is natural, but the death anxiety and terror of modern culture are not.”

C. GREEN BURIAL, ECOLOGICAL FINAL DISPOSITION

Carolyn Laine, MN State Representative, 33-minute You Tube presentation, “Green Burials, Options for After-Death Care.” www.youtube.com/watch?v=RZKy2xo2g8w

Choicesfree downloadable booklet from Minnesota Department of Health with legal and practical information on the final disposition of a body.

Dying Green, a 26-minute documentary about natural burial and land conservation, set in the Appalachians. Dr. Billy Campbell’s dream is to conserve one million acres of land, using our own death to create wildlife preserves. Two copies available at Hennepin Co. Library.

Eloise Woods Community Natural Burial Park, a green cemetery in Cedar Creek Texas. Ellen Macdonald, Manager.

“Flameless Cremation,” a chemical process of reducing a body to its basic elements using alkaline hydrolysis. Bradshaw Funeral and Cremation Services in Stillwater, MN, offers the first commercial unit in the Midwest.  TV news story, newspaper article  or YouTube video

Going Out Green: One Man’s Adventure Planning His Own Burial. Bob Butz, Spirituality & Health, 2009

Grave Matters: A Journey Through the Modern Funeral Industry To a Natural Way of Burial. Mark Harris, Scribner, 2007

Green Burial Council, nonprofit organization working for environmentally sustainable death care. Certifies mortuaries, cemeteries, and providers.

Green Burial Movement: www.brownedocs.com/the-green-burial-movement

TED-X Talk on Conservation Burial‏, “Saving One Million Acres for Two Thousand Years” by Billy Campbell, MD, founder of Ramsey Creek Preserve, the first green cemetery in the US.

A Will for the Woods, full-length documentary about a dying physician’s wish for a green burial that led a cemetery to turn a wooded section slated to be cleared for conventional graves into a natural burial site. Profiles the US green burial movement.  See a trailer here

D. ECO-FRIENDLY CEMETERIES & FUNERAL SUPPLIES

1. Supplies

Affordable Coffins & Artery offers sturdy, dignified, custom, and hand-crafted coffins, using green materials.  595 N. Snelling Avenue, Saint Paul, MN, 55104. mike@affordablecoffinsandartery.com651-208-6902

Duluth Casket Shop sells custom hand-crafted casket and cremains boxes from native local woods. Duluth, MN,, 218-728-2384

Final Foootprint: Eco-caskets and natural burials. Half Moon Bay, California. 650-726-5255

Quiet Waters Casket Co. Hand-crafted pine boxes and urns made in Alexandria, MN. 320-815-3861

Techni-Ice reusable packs can be used instead of dry ice to cool a body. Available at amazon.com   and Group Medical Supply in Plymouth, MN

Waconia Casket Company, solid wood caskets for direct sale to the public.  For green burials, caskets can be made with no metal parts. Waconia, MN

2. Green Cemetery Options in the Twin Cities Metro Area

Mound Cemetery of Brooklyn Center, Minnesota’s first hybrid green burial ground certified by the Green Burial Council. Brooklyn Center, MN, 952-935-0954, info@moundcemetery.com. Charges a maintenance fee for vaultless burials.

Prairie Oaks Memorial Eco Gardens, Minnesota’s first natural burial ground, Inver Grove Heights, MN, 651-300-9549. Prairie Oaks is featured in the February 2014 Natural Awakenings Magazine with a graphic illustrating the main differences between a conventional burial and a green burial. www.natwincities.com/Twin-Cities/February-2014/Prairie-Oaks-Memorial-Eco-Gardens-Offers-Green-Burials.

Roselawn Cemetery, non-sectarian hybrid burial ground, 803 W. Larpenteur Ave. Roseville, MN. 651-489-1720. Charges a maintenance fee for vaultless burials.

E. SUPPORTIVE FUNERAL HOMES

Bradshaw Funeral & Cremation, 2800 Curve Crest Boulevard West, Stillwater, MN 55082, (651) 439-5511. First funeral home in Minnesota to offer “Flameless cremation”  (alkaline hydrolysis).

Crescent Tide Funeral & Cremation, 764 Transfer Rd, St. Paul, MN 55114, 651-315-8214. Funeral director Verlin Stoll and funeral pre-arranger Lisa Stoll provide low-cost funerals and cremations.

Gill Brothers Funeral Home, 5801 Lyndale Ave. S., Minneapolis, MN 55419, 612-861-6088.

Thomson-Dougherty Funeral Home, 2535 Park Ave, Minneapolis, MN 55404, 612-871-4407. Funeral director Mike Dougherty welcomes vigils and funerals with unembalmed bodies.

Twin Cities Cremation, 1598 Carroll Ave., St. Paul, MN, 55104, 651-645-1233. Funeral Directors Robert McAdams, Robert Haliburton, and Ben Dibble offer more affordable cremation and funerals.

Willwerscheid Natural Burial and Cremation, 1167 Grand Avenue, St Paul, MN, 651.457.7938 . Funeral director and MTN member Steve Willwerscheid offers eco-friendly visitations, funerals, and final disposition options.

F. SOCIAL AND OTHER OPPORTUNITIES

Death Cafe Twin Cities: a not-for-profit social franchise and international movement to “increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their (finite) lives.”

Death Over Dinner: not exactly an organization, but an opportunity for interested people to gather friends and family over dinner and discuss end-of-life planning and other death-related issues.

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11 thoughts on “Resources

  1. I am interested in becoming a member of the MN Threshold Care Network. Please add me to you contact list and inform me of any upcoming educational or networking opportunities. I am an interspiritual minister, specializing in hospice ministry, green funerals and burials, and educating spiritual communities in SE MN about these options. Thank you for the laying the foundation for this important work.

    Rev Char Tarashanti biobalance240@charter.net 507-289-0720

  2. Mound Cemetery Of Brooklyn Center becomes certified green funeral provider in Brooklyn Center, Minnesota

    Mound Cemetery of Brooklyn Center has been certified as a “hybrid greenburial cemetery” offering end-of-life services that are ecologically conscious to minimize long-term environmental impacts.

    Green burial providers adopt burial practices that are non-toxic and energy-conserving, including:
    • Burial with non-toxic, biodegradable burial containers.
    • Burial without the use of formaldehyde-based embalming chemicals.
    • Burial without the use of burial vaults.

    Mound Cemetery Of Brooklyn Center was certified by the Green Burial Council (GBC), a nonprofit organization that advocates sustainable, economically viable burials and the restoration and stewardship of natural areas. Founded in 2005, the Green Burial Council certifies funeral service providers, burial grounds and product providers as green burial providers to address a “new ethic in death care.”

    “We’re pleased to offer the Minneapolis/St Paul Metro communities with more options for the afterlife burial of their loved ones,” said Dan Kantar, cemetery manager. “Becoming ‘green certified’ is another way in which Mound Cemetery is responding to the unique, evolving desires of its customers.”

    To learn more, visit http://www.moundcemetery.com or the GBC’s website at http://www.greenburialcouncil.org

  3. I feel alone. I am 85. I am looking into a green funeral. What is the Archdiocese of St. Paul Minneapolis doing about green funerals. I live on the farm from which my great grandfather was drafted into the Civil War in LeSueur County. Help!

  4. my business was looking for MN Health Care Directive Planning Toolkit several days ago and found a company with 6 million forms . If others are wanting MN Health Care Directive Planning Toolkit too , here’s a https://goo.gl/Q3wges.

  5. Nice piece – I was enlightened by the details – Does someone know where I would be able to obtain a fillable MN Health Care Directive Planning Toolkit document to use ?

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